Fuel for depression: I get paid when bad stuff happens
It’s 6:32 am and I just had an epiphany: I spend too much time thinking about what’s wrong. I’m a journalist so it goes without saying that that’s what I get paid to do. We write about what’s wrong....
View ArticleFour reasons to exercise when you have depression
Shortly before my depression snapped me in half, I went to a spin class at the gym. Of all the exercise I have done – and I have done a lot – spin is the most intense aerobic workouts. An hour of...
View ArticleHow much sleep is enough/too much when you have depression
The first thing my psych-nurse practitioner said on my first visit during my last major depression was this: “First, we need to get you some sleep.” What? I expected her to say anti-depressants – at...
View ArticleDeath and depression: Two questions you must ask
I am now in the midst of watching a loved one die – slowly. This is the third time I’ve been down this road. The first two deaths were my parents. Cancer ate them little by little and they died 16...
View ArticleSix rules I follow to avoid depression during the holidays
Yesterday, as I was sitting on the front porch I was smacked upside the head by a Hallmark moment. An SUV with license plates from another state pulled in the driveway of the family across the street....
View ArticleWhat to buy someone with depression for the holidays? Nothing.
I did not want to answer the door during my last major depression and I did not answer the phone. So, what gift do you give someone who is in this kind of depression? Consider nothing. There is nothing...
View ArticleWhy are all the great Christmas classics about depression?
Ever notice that the great holiday classic are about depression? There’s George Bailey, the financially strapped father of a posse of rowdy kids in It’s a Wonderful Life. Then there’s Scrooge and the...
View Article4 reasons why addicts should not trust doctors
One Last month I went to the emergency room with tightness in my chest and shortness of breath. I answered a bunch of questions about my medical history, told them about my depression and bipolar, the...
View ArticleA recovered alcoholic asks: If I take antidepressants, am I still sober?
I am a recovered alcoholic. I also have bipolar II, which can manifest in depression. I am what they call “dual-diagnosed” – or “twice blessed” as those of us in recovery often quip. I was about 7...
View ArticleIs self-sufficiency making you depressed?
Sunday marked the 13th anniversary of my mother’s death. Sixteen months before she died, my father passed. Eight months after she died, my dog died. I loved my parents – and my dog – very much. But I...
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